Maybe you're ghosted after great dates that felt so promising — you thought "finally, someone who gets me" — only to never hear from him again.
Or you find yourself shrinking to stay chosen, dimming your brilliance on dates because you've learned that being "too much" scares men away.
Perhaps you're exhausted from situationships that look aligned on paper but leave you feeling like you're performing feminine energy instead of embodying your truth.
You're tired of prescriptive dating advice that treats all women the same — "wait three days to text," "don't be too available," "play hard to get" — when you know you're not like everyone else.
You've done the therapy. Saged the heck out of your past. Read the books. Tried the dating apps, the feminine energy coaches, the vision boards, the "just manifest him" approach. You've even tried the "focus on yourself" method.
But you're still attracting the wrong men and wondering what's wrong with you.
Here's the truth: Nothing is wrong with you. The paradigm is wrong.
You're not broken. You don't need more healing. You don't need to be more patient, more soft, or more anything.
What's missing isn't another dating strategy — it's energetic alignment.
You don't have to figure this out alone anymore. I know that seems counterintuitive, but here's why this works:
Whether you're divorced and starting fresh, never been married and wondering why you haven't found "the one," or coming out of a long-term relationship that didn't work out — I've worked with women in every situation. Your story is unique, but the path to aligned love is available to everyone.
When you sign up for the assessment, you get:
✨ Your own individual call with me for free — I work specifically with conscious, successful women who are ready for something deeper than dating apps and surface strategies.
🎯 Your personalized Human Design Dating Archetype Report — Discover exactly how you're wired to attract, connect, and choose in love.
I'm Joan Nwosu,
and just like you, I've been exactly where you are.
I'm a woman who's walked through heartbreak, healing, and hope, and now walks beside others as they discover their unique blueprint for love. My journey into relationship coaching wasn't planned — it unfolded through lived experience and a revolutionary discovery.
I know what it's like to:
- Be the strong one, the successful one — and still cry wondering why love feels so hard
- Be pursued, admired, even desired — yet never fully seen
- Try to "fix" yourself to be more palatable, more patient, more perfect — only to attract partners who couldn't meet you at your depth
- Get ghosted after showing up as your best self and spiral into questioning your worth
- Wonder if something was wrong with you because dating advice that worked for everyone else never seemed to land
Raised in the quiet aftermath of my parents' divorce, I learned early that love isn't always easy — but it's always worth understanding. Years later, I stood in similar shoes. I loved, I married, I hoped… and I also let go.
Divorce was my turning point. It unraveled me, then rebuilt me.
But something was still missing. Despite all my healing work, I kept attracting the same patterns.
Then I discovered Human Design and everything clicked.
My Love Gates revealed why I'd been drawn to certain types, why chemistry felt like "the one," and how to finally break the cycle.
Through my work with hundreds of successful women, I realized:
- What's missing isn't another dating strategy. It's energetic alignment.
- You don't need to be more available. You need to be more authentic.
- And you don't need to "fix" yourself. You need to remember who you truly are.
I'm not here to tell you what you're doing is wrong. I want to show you the real possibilities your love life has as you create your aligned relationship and it starts with The Aligned Love Assessment.
Joan